
Complaint v Criticism
We are always likely to have various complaints about the person we are married to. When we live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, and live out
We are always likely to have various complaints about the person we are married to. When we live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, and live out
Rugby season is upon us Just yesterday Whittaker’s Chocolate launched their new limited edition blocks to support the All Blacks. The flavour of ‘Home’ is flat white and ‘Away’ is
John Gottman, author of the best selling book, “Seven principles of a great marriage” released a dvd a few years ago called “Making marriage work”. On the dvd he talks
Have you asked someone today “How are you?” or “Are you ok?” And did they respond with “Good thanks” or “fine”? I bet you have, and I bet they did.
Are you good at lending an ear? Or put another way, are you a good listener? I bet you answered in the affirmative. Most people do. In the book “The Listening Life” by Adam S.McHugh, Psychologist David Benner is quoted as saying “most of us are not good at listening even though we think we are”, and that this becomes an obstacle to growth.
The secret to “happily ever after” is finding your soul mate, right? Wrong! Here’s why; and an alternative mindset you may want to adopt. Relationship …
We probably all remember the song, “On the first day of Christmas my true love sent to me, a partridge in a pear tree”. I …
Having been involved with FamilyLife and working with couples for over 28 years I’ve noticed that people assume I’m a ‘sexpert’. I’m not, but I …
Have you ever fought about money in your relationship? I bet you have. I bet that some of your fiercest arguments have involved finances. Money …
Have you ever wondered that you might have married the wrong person? Often when we fall in love, we do so because that person is …
Nobody likes them, right, and yet we all need to have them if our relationships are going to deepen and grow. I remember having a …
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